When you finish, you'll see a map like this
An example with made-up answers, so you can see what this map draws.
Which words come up, and whether they get repairedHow often the first three kinds show up
- Guilt as leverageOnce or twice
- Dismissing feelingsOccasionally
- Withdrawing warmthEvery so oftenMost often
- Repaired afterwardMost of the time
- Vs. six months agoAbout the same
- Who it's for
- Some words sound like nothing, but you keep thinking about them after you get home.
- What you'll explore
- Which kinds of phrases show up in a relationship, whether there are more of them, and whether anyone comes back afterward to pick them up.
- How it works
- Pick which side you're looking from and which relationship you have in mind, go through sixteen statements, then answer two questions.
- What gets saved
- Nothing. This page only shows what the map looks like when it's done.
This map is available in Chinese. The English version is being translated.