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Care in both directions

When you finish, you'll see a map like this

An example with made-up answers, so you can see what this map draws.

Where your care goes
More foryouCare goesboth waysRunninglow latelyMore forothersMiddle groundCare forself: oftenCare forself: rarelyCare forothers: rarelyCare forothers: often

The four parts, looked at separately

  • ApprovalMeSometimesOthersMostly
  • UnderstandingMeHalf the timeOthersMostly
  • RespectBiggest gapMeRarelyOthersMostly
  • WarmthMeHalf the timeOthersAlways
Who it's for
You give the people around you recognition, understanding, and care, and rarely stop to ask whether you're receiving the same.
What you'll explore
A separate look at four kinds of care: recognition, understanding, respect, and caring, and how much you give yourself and how much you give others.
How it works
Think about the last month and see how often 16 things happen in you, 8 about yourself and 8 about others.
How long
About 5 minutes
What gets saved
Nothing. This page only shows what the map looks like when it's done.

This map is available in Chinese. The English version is being translated.

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