文獻
前兩筆研究指出，人會低估深入對話的順利程度與社交連結的可能。這是本頁鼓勵對話、分開看深度與共識的依據。
第 3 筆是八個主題的來源，是書籍而非研究量表。題目由小實現依公開架構編寫，未使用書中題目，分數不能和別人的平均分數比較。
四種樣子與四件做法是小實現的整理，並非直接取自單一研究。
文獻 4 筆，展開看
- Kardas, M., Kumar, A., & Epley, N. (2022). Overly shallow?: Miscalibrated expectations create a barrier to deeper conversation. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 122(3), 367–398.
- Epley, N., Kardas, M., Zhao, X., Atir, S., & Schroeder, J. (2022). Undersociality: Miscalibrated social cognition can inhibit social connection. Trends in Cognitive Sciences, 26(5), 406–418.
- Gottman, J. M., & Gottman, J. S. (2019). Eight dates: Essential conversations for a lifetime of love. Workman Publishing.
- Gottman, J. M., & Levenson, R. W. (1992). Marital processes predictive of later dissolution: Behavior, physiology, and health. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 63(2), 221–233.